Hey Folks!

I’ve been living abroad for over half my life in a country where tipping is not the norm. At most you would round up. 19€ bill? Here’s a 20, keep this change.

Going to the US soon to visit family and the whole idea of tipping makes me nervous. It seems there’s a lot of discussion about getting rid of tipping, but I don’t know how much has changed in this regard.

The system seems ridiculously unfair, and that extra expense in a country where everything is already so expensive really makes a difference.

So will AITA if I don’t tip? Is it really my personal responsibility to make sure my server is paid enough?

  • bappity@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    trouble is that by tipping you are enforcing tipping culture, giving the employers an excuse to underpay. You can’t win…

    • mintyfrog@lemmy.ml
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      1 year ago

      Tipping culture comes from minimum wage laws. Laws need to change before culture could change.

    • jonne@infosec.pub
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      1 year ago

      Yeah, but you can change that by going to the rare places that have a no tipping policy. Don’t just refuse to tip servers knowing that that’s the only way they get paid.