Mind sharing any piece of advice that you felt particularly useful? Thank you in advance. I’m so excited!

  • NABDad@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    The “lasts”

    The last time you do something with your kids. You almost never realize it when it’s happening.

    I first realized it with taking my daughter trick-or-treating. It was Halloween, and I was tired and dreading it. I headed home, got myself psyched up to take her out, and then when I got there she said she was going out with friends instead.

    I realized that the previous time was the last time and I was never going to do that again. Despite being exhausted from work, I was heartbroken that I had not focused well enough the previous time. It felt like I had just wasted the opportunity.

    She’s almost 21 now, and I’m still talking about it. So, you know it hit hard.