I found Lemmy through a friend’s recommendation after I deleted my 15yo Reddit account yesterday. I didn’t understand about the decentralization until after I’d signed up on blahaj, but it seems chill so far. I’m very queer but queer spaces make me edgy since they tend to be overwhelmingly white and neoliberal, with all the microaggressions that entails. I’m giving it a shot though.
My friend whose autistic special interest is reading medical research on transition said to wait a full year before starting progesterone because estrogen creates the breast structure and then the progesterone develops the existing structure. And if you don’t give the estrogen time to build the structure first, the results won’t be as good.