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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • I actually kind of enjoy being secretly Bi at work too. It’s a little like being undercover on some kind of elite operation except the mission is just to confuse your coworkers.

    I work with a lesbian couple (one works in my department, the other in another department) and with the one I work with directly, I made a little rainbow out of pushpins on her divider one day then a week or so later put one on mine, with my only explanation being that “it looks cute”

    I have a husband so that kind of squashes most opportunities for speculation but I also have fun coloured hair (which I got when I ‘came out’ to myself about a year ago) so the question is “am I a ditzy ally? Or a secret gay living in the shadows?” Who can really say?


  • I’m a new/ confused bisexual so I genuinely don’t have anything that makes me feel bisexual just wearing it.

    I wish I could wear loose button ups (that’s my baby bisexual dream) but they never look even remotely androgenous on me because the body shape I’ve got is pretty stereotypically feminine. Like, loose button ups especially just flow off my chest in a way that only really makes me look bigger than I am, while tight button ups make me look like a stripper.

    The closest I’ve come is an undershirt with a loose, boyish button up worn open, which I like to do but again, with my figure, I don’t think it says bisexual so much as it says “look, boobs”

    So yeah, I’ll be following this thread for tips!