Ugh

Prepare for my brutally honest feelings on cishets

My feelings on cishets is that you’re (on average) less interesting to me than queer people. With that said, have had a couple cishet friends in the past. You’re all fine. It’s not to say that you as a person are boring. But, Cishet is like the cardboard box of the gender/sexuality spectrum to me, incredibly mundane.

Idk how to explain it. Due to being LGBTQIA+ myself, queer people automatically get a +1 in my ranking of how much I am interested in interaction with you.

I’m going to take a rather controversial stance on this. I don’t see this as such a bad Thing

First of all, running a discord server, especially a large one is not easy and discord mods deserve to be paid for their time just as much as anyone else.

While I will say that I’m not a huge fan of discord’s new focus on massive servers, it’s clear that that’s what brings in the big dough for them.

If this helps discord keep the lights on, and keep small servers running that’s good for me as much as it is good for them.

Also, I’d much rather this than ads ngl

Didn’t brave have some scandals. Idk that’s when I stopped using it

Dear god, I hope so

I hate watching so many people get scammed

I’m no federation or csec expert but the big issue is storing the the user keys. Though maybe the keys could just be the user’s password. But then you have to trust that your instance isn’t stealing it.

You could have them checksummed by the lemmy/kbin/mastodon devs, but then now you have to trust them.

At some point you’d need a centralized authority, which is kinda against the whole point of the fediverse.

It sucks but your best option is to just put telegram info in your bio afaik

E2E for federated messages would be great tho

Fuck