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Cake day: February 25th, 2024

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  • I’m nonbinary, married to a trans woman. Every time I lean into my more masc presenting side, part of me is sad that we don’t appear MORE queer, and part of me wonders if I’m subconsciously wanting to pass as a straight couple. Isn’t identity a fuckin trip?

    The way I see it, people have been putting us in boxes our whole lives.

    Straight afab didn’t fit me, bisexual kinda does, lesbian was better, now trans nonbinary omnisexual is me, lol.

    Language is imperfect. All we can do is use that imperfect language to tell each other about our real selves, and anyone giving you shit for that is really missing the point… We’re queer because we looked at our assigned boxes and said “nope” 💜