I am a father whose child came out to me. His mother and I were proud, and very flattered that they felt safe enough to tell us. I am saddened that this isn’t the universal experience — every child deserves that.

I know it was difficult for your parents, and I respect that, but you deserve to be embraced just as you are.

It sounds like you are moving on with your life and embracing family that loves you. I think that’s wise.

I know people are reading this who are going through some things. Take care of yourself. You really do deserve it.