I experienced a gay sauna for the first time a couple of days ago. I was anxious for a few minutes, until I got a feel for the place and let my towel expose me a bit. I had two encounters and both were fantastic. (If you’re following my previous post, I’m in the very beginning stages still…) However, both times, my partner expected kissing, naturally. But I have always had an aversion to tongues and kissing in general. This confirmed it. Interlocking tongues with another human is not my thing. It feels disgusting and I was cringing a bit during that part. (I say this but I was the bottom…) I felt strange saying that I don’t kiss, but maybe that’s acceptable just like any other boundary. I am wondering, though, if it is possible to get over it.
Sometimes I feel like the only one. It just grossea me out. I don’t know why. :/
I gave in and made out with a dude during a hookup two months, though. Got. Fucking. Mono. -_-
You are not the only one! Absolutely no appeal for me, either, and I do not at all understand what people like about it. You want to do what? With your MOUTH? Are you crazy?
Sorry to hear about the mono, hope you’ve recovered!
Yeah, I’m recovered, thankfully. It’s crazy, I’m willing to do a lot with my mouth, but mouth-mouth just grosses me out. Lol.