Feel free to let it all out!

  • Elise@beehaw.orgOP
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    7
    ·
    10 months ago

    Have you picked a new name yet, or how’s that going, or is it gonna be miss Brainfart? 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈

      • Elise@beehaw.orgOP
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        10 months ago

        Hey Brainfart, so why don’t you get your facial hair lasered?

        I couldn’t stand mine either. Like one of those things you have to do twice a day and just pretend you don’t exist and force yourself through it.

        • miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          10 months ago

          Because it’s an expense I simply can’t afford atm. I need to go to a therapist, get an official indication for my transgender identity, and then I can ask my health insurance to pay for it.

          • Elise@beehaw.orgOP
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            10 months ago

            Make sure you go to the right therapist, a lot of people are not up to snuff on this stuff, and that can really fuck you up. What worked for me was to call the insurance and they provided a list. I know them feels sis!

            • miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              4
              ·
              edit-2
              10 months ago

              There’s two websites I found where queer people can reccommend medical professionals they went to, so that’s what I’m using to find one

              Because honestly, my insurance has proven to be incompetent on a few accounts already

              • Elise@beehaw.orgOP
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                3
                ·
                10 months ago

                Ah sorry to hear that. I’m also quite poor and yet spending a ton on health insurance just to be able to get a half decent coverage. But it’s great you found a solution there.

                So it’s too expensive to visit one or is it an emotional thing?

                • miss_brainfart@lemmy.ml
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  2
                  ·
                  10 months ago

                  Therapy should be covered, but hair removal is not. Only when a therapist officially states I’m transgender, insurance can pay for it. And even then they might try not to, but I also found a resource telling us what to do when that’s the case.

                  I’m stoked to get the ball rolling, in any case :D

                  • Elise@beehaw.orgOP
                    link
                    fedilink
                    arrow-up
                    2
                    ·
                    10 months ago

                    Ya it’s the same in the Netherlands. Really pisses me off to no end. I know people have different opinions about it but to me it’s nothing but plain discrimination.