This is how I feel about my gender now. I’m AFAB and mostly fine with it. In my 30s so don’t feel like I can opt out at this point without some major major sacrifices. But if I could start again I’d be a dude, even if I was still AFAB. I sort of envy kids that got to grow up hearing that switching was an option, but then I think about the state of everything else and I figure I still probably got the better deal.