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This is how I feel about my gender now. I’m AFAB and mostly fine with it. In my 30s so don’t feel like I can opt out at this point without some major major sacrifices. But if I could start again I’d be a dude, even if I was still AFAB. I sort of envy kids that got to grow up hearing that switching was an option, but then I think about the state of everything else and I figure I still probably got the better deal.
If the job requires you to be at your desk then presumably that means you have work to complete. Judge people for what they get done, not how often they mindlessly move a mouse and this wouldn’t be a problem!